Just attended my first iPhone and iPad developer night event (here's the Meetup website) put on by @timburke. It was a great event because the room was full of iPhone / iPad developers, and not business people (like me!). I almost hate to spread the word because I'm sure it'll get more commercialized by doing so, but it's such a great event I just had to get the word out there.
Here's the video of the event, it's about 90 minutes, and sorry for the bad quality; I had a poor seat. But if you're interested enough in the content, you might find it worth watching. (I'll work on getting there early next time to get a prime seat!)